Paula May Wing

Paula May Wing, born Paula May Gauger, age 70, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her children, on the morning of May 19th, 2026. She was born on May 15, 1956, to parents, Lawrence Gauger Jr. and Pauline (Nielsen) Gauger. One of five children.

As a lifelong resident of Oshkosh, Wisconsin, Paula enjoyed the things we all love: Friday night fish fry’s, Leon’s hot fudge nut sundaes, Roxy tenderloins, days at Menominee Park, the Bucks, Packers and Brewer games. She worked and retired as a dietary aid at Winnebago Mental Health Institute, where she was proud to serve many in need of special help. Her life of hard work and conscientiousness allowed her to provide a warm, caring home for her children, partner, and family, where the door was always open to loved ones.

Above all, Paula loved family. As a kind Mother, Sister, and Aunt, she always made sure everyone who visited her home was well fed and cared for. She was known for her lasagna, meatloaf and chili, and cooked with love using her home grown vegetables and herbs. An avid green thumb, a passion she inherited from her Mother, she boasted the most beautiful gardens in the neighborhood, and her home was always filled with plants and flowers. She never felt more alive than when her hands were in the soil, and was always happy to share fresh tomatoes, cucumbers, kohlrabi, and her fragrant roses with family, friends, and neighbors.

Paula May was preceded in death by her Father, Lawrence and Mother, Pauline Gauger; as well as her Aunt, Carol Gauger. She is survived by four siblings, Laura, Patty, Lynn and Gary; her life partner, Dennis Golliher; son, Jason Wing; daughter, Amanda Wing; and the father of her children, Gary Wing.

Laura Sue, thank you for always being there. Thanks to Barb Wing for your help along the way; the care and food you gifted were treasured. Lyndsey, we are forever grateful for your generosity. And a very special Thank You to Compassus, most notably Chris and Morgan (or as Mom called you, “Red”).

In lieu of flowers a memorial will be established in Paula’s name.

Mom, the deep love and affection you provided to us all throughout your lifetime will stay with us for the remainder of our days. Your infectious laughter and your watchful, solicitous nature will be deeply missed.